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Getting the most out of Real Kink Men, one feature at a time.

Hands raised in a dark crowd, holding up glowing phone screens

How-to · 4 min read

Stories: polls, Ask me, and who sees them

A story is the quickest way to say what you're up to tonight. How to make one, how polls and Ask me work, and how to choose exactly who gets to watch

The Real Kink Men team · Oct 21

A man with glasses at night, looking down at the phone in his hand, city lights blurred behind him

Site news · 3 min read

The app is open: Real Kink Men on iPhone and Android

The beta is open to every member. Same username, same password, and your phone buzzes when he writes back. Here's how to get it

Ryan · Oct 17

A man in a dark room, his face lit by the glow of the phone in his hand

Site news · 3 min read

You can call him now: voice and video calls in Messages

Hear his voice before you meet. See him before you drive across town. Calls live in the chat you already have open, on the site and in the app

Ryan · Oct 16

An aerial view of a city at night, its streets traced in orange and white lights

How-to · 4 min read

Radar, explained: who sees you and how close

Radar shows the men around you without ever showing where you live. Here is what it shares, what it never does, and the settings that put you in charge.

The Real Kink Men team · Oct 7

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